9.10.09

"You Just Don't Look Happy" "You REALLY Don't Look..."

I heard this sentence from both of my boys about 186 times tonight.  While shopping at Target. 

I kept telling them that I just don't feel well today, that I am perfectly happy.  Still, they had to go on and on (and on) about how poorly I looked.  "But mom, you just look so mad or sad or something."

I love having boys that are concerned for me.  No matter how kind the intentions were, however, having to hear about how bad I looked was getting old.  I even walked over to a mirror to see what the heck they were talking about.


Why was I there at 7pm on a Friday night?

Target was the LAST place I wanted to be.  But when I pulled out the seasonal clothing box, I realized that my kids had no winter clothes.  They grew out of ALL of them.  And when I sent them off to school today shivering, all red bare arms and knees, I figured something should probably be done.  It takes a little while for me to realize that, as the mother, these things only get taken care of when I hop to it.


So even though I was feeling sick and even though I canceled my band practice  (I will explain that some other time) I went to Target.

Next time I will put on a little makeup, I think.





P.S.  Where was Ada in all of this?   About 15 feet behind me crying "I HATE going to the store and not buying things I want.  It makes me SO JEALOUS!"  She was oblivious to my state and really everything else unrelated to the fact that we weren't going to buy her any shoes.

5 comments:

cristie said...

such a good mama. xox

cristie said...

by the way, love your photo at the top. xox

Jo said...

So sorry it wasn't a positive time at the happy place as I love that place. Although, if I had children with me, and didn't feel good, I'd probably not be so thrilled either. Love reading your prose and admire you immensely from afar; you are a good mother. :)

The Dipo's said...

BAH! AHAHAHAHAHA!!! Seriouslly... you freakin' crack me up! (p.s. - sorry you weren't feeling well!)

Katie said...

Target. 7:00 p.m. WITH the kids!! That's a recipe for regret (for me).

I am no good, and have no patience for my kids after 7. I punch my timecard then, and unless they're sick or maimed, I refer them to Danny.

You're a good mommy!